How to Play the Mr & Mrs Game at a Hen Party
The Mr & Mrs game is one of the most popular and hilarious activities you can include at a hen party. It’s simple, cheeky and guaranteed to get everyone laughing.
If you’re planning a hen do and want something that gets everyone involved straight away, this game is always a winner.
How to play the Mr & Mrs game
Before the event, the groom-to-be answers a set of questions about the relationship. During the hen party, the bride-to-be is asked the same questions and must try to match his answers.
Every wrong answer means a forfeit - usually a shot or a dare. For every correct answer, she can nominate someone else to take the forfeit instead.
For a fun twist, you can record the groom’s answers on video and play them back on the night - this always gets a great reaction.
Make it even more fun
Want to take things up a level? Let a buff butler host the game.
They’ll read out the questions, organise the forfeits and keep the energy high - so you can relax and enjoy the experience with your group.
Mr & Mrs question ideas
For the best experience, start with safe warm-up questions and gradually build into cheekier and more savage rounds as the game goes on.
Safe warm-up questions
- What’s his go-to takeaway order?
- What’s his favourite meal?
- Who’s his celebrity crush?
- What’s his favourite song - and what’s yours (according to him)?
- What was the first movie you watched together?
- What’s his favourite time of year?
- What year did you get together?
- Who would play him in a movie of his life?
- Where does he want to go on honeymoon?
- What’s his favourite drink on a night out?
- What’s his dream job?
- What’s his favourite snack?
- What’s his dream car?
- What’s his favourite holiday you’ve been on together?
- What’s the first thing he noticed about you?
Cheeky questions
- What’s the most unusual place you’ve been intimate?
- What’s your most annoying habit - according to him?
- What would you say is his most annoying habit?
- Who wears the trousers in your relationship?
- What’s his nickname for you? And yours for him?
- Would you rather spend a night with his parents or yours?
- What would he say is your worst habit?
- What’s his biggest pet peeve?
- What’s something he’s really bad at?
- What’s the one thing he always loses?
- What’s his guilty pleasure TV show?
- What’s his worst habit around the house?
- What’s his most-used phrase?
- What’s his signature dance move?
- What’s something he always forgets?
- What would he say your first date was like?
Savage questions
- What’s the one thing, apart from you, that he’d save in a fire?
- What would he say is the most embarrassing thing you’ve ever done?
- Would you trust him to choose your wedding dress?
- How many times did he take his driving test?
- What’s his biggest weakness?
- What’s his most embarrassing childhood memory?
- What’s something he pretends to like but actually doesn’t?
- What’s his worst fashion choice ever?
- What’s the one thing he always argues about?
- What would he say is the best thing about your relationship?
- What’s the funniest thing he’s ever said?
- If he won the lottery, what’s the first thing he’d buy?
- What’s the one chore he hates doing most?
- What would he say is your funniest moment together?
- What were his exact words when he proposed?
Looking for more hen party games?
If you’re planning a full hen party itinerary, you might also enjoy our guide to more fun and interactive games:
4 best hen party games for a great laugh
It’s packed with ideas to keep the energy high and make sure your event is unforgettable.
Frequently asked questions
How many questions should you ask?
Around 15-30 questions works best, especially if you want to build from safe warm-up questions into cheekier and more savage rounds as the game goes on.
What forfeits work best?
Shots, dares and fun challenges are the most popular.
Do you need to prepare in advance?
Yes - you’ll need the groom’s answers beforehand.
Can a buff butler run the game?
Yes - they can host the entire game and keep everything flowing.
Ready to host the perfect hen party game?
The Mr & Mrs game is simple, fun and guaranteed to bring everyone together.